A partnership should be built on a daily

Each person has a way of being special and unique, so that all relationships are different, some like to give orders while others have a profile submissive or easy-going, some people prefer to take decisions and decide for them, to some it is easier to occur and others do not feel so comfortable when having to speak. Unfortunately there is no formula that guarantees success in life partner.



Each union is governed by rules, which generally are not set explicitly by its members but serve to keep alive the relationship while it lasts.



Additionally, there are some general proposals to promote harmony in married life, always starting with two starting points: the equal rights of its members and fostering a constant dynamism, over time to have a life harmonious partnership is necessary to feel the presence of the other person on the path they have chosen to take, receive support, but also taking into account the individuality of the couple to prevent asphyxia. Communication is the most important, to maintain harmony, the channels and forms of communication should always be this open and in use, from verbal communication mast bodily communication as petting.



Building a favorable environment for life on parejaLo important to maintain a good connection and prevent the offenses or inconsiderate. Good communication aprietos.Primero us out of many and should be avoided at all costs the blame. Assume a posture objective and comprehensive in order to establish which is the responsibility of each of the parties. Living together does not mean an attitude of giving without limits and not expect anything in return. That is a lie and creates imbalances that sooner or later end up causing major problems. In the couple, as in any relationship, you have to give and receive.



Worry about getting to our partner.


Our partner should know what we like, how and when they want. It must keep abreast of the time the couple lived, because they always feel, or want, or live the same: our life is a succession of stages, and each has its own peculiarities. Married life each day grows when we feel together in the same way, communicating from the body and the words and share unconditionally. Establish your own code itself, based on communication, trust, respect, tenderness and pleasure.



Living in a couple: what not to do


Expect the couple guess what I want and need.
Take responsibility for my frustrations.
Competing on who is more or less, better or worse, who owes more or less the other.
To be unfaithful to the joint project, not just romantic relationships and / or sex with another person but as a whole.
To doubt the other person.
Allow or encourage silence in situations that can cause a mismatch.
Do not make our complaints and needs.
Never try to partner with irony, sarcasm, destructive criticism, yelling, insults, ridicule, contempt or disqualification.
Do not leave a secondary sex because it is a very important aspect in the relationship.



    Steps for Improving life together

- Have willingness to overcome any difficulty. Do not run from trouble.

- Accept the other as is, assume that nobody is perfect and above all do not try to change

- Search for common activities to share. This does not mean you have to be always together, or renouncing one's tastes for the benefit of another, but if you have common projects and illusions.

- When you have a bad day, do not download the bad mood about the couple .- Make interest in serving the needs of others.

- Expresses positive feelings impica this value and recognize the other, to express praise, feelings of affection, to highlight its successes.